My parents left yesterday to spend some time together in Germany, before they leave they always tell us not to make a mess, clean up etc.

They are coming back tomorrow, one of the things I like to do is to make sure everything is neat when they come back.

What bugs me though is that I always do all the work. While I am doing the laundry, folding the laundry, cooking, cleaning the bird cage, shopping for groceries, vacuuming, clean up the kitchen, empty and load the dishwasher my 17 year old brother is drinking loads of beer, hanging out with his friends, playing guitar and sitting behind the pc.

I asked him a couple of times to clean up all the beer cans that are standing on his desk, but he simply refuses, saying he will do it tomorrow. (he wants to “impress” his friends) When I ask him to vacuum all he does is moan and cry, and when he does vacuum he does it in two minutes (obviously only vacuuming the central parts, while I vacuum every corner there is, takes me 10 minutes)

It annoys me so very much! He is Autistic, what basically means my parents blame everything he does on that disease. I can not deal very well with autistic people..